The Art of Engagement

ahava shira
  • Female
  • Salt Spring Island, B.C.
  • Canada
Share 

Ahava shira's Friends

 

loving inquiry

Gifts Received

Gift

ahava shira has not received any gifts yet

Give ahava shira a Gift

Profile Information

What else do you want us to know?
I am asking the questions: What does it mean to engage in relationships in loving ways? How do I practice engaging with myself, others and the natural world in ways that move beyond dominant, stereotypical and/ or discriminatory discourses that limit who each of us is and/ or may be? How can we engage in relationships in ways that keep identities open, fluid and flexible, able to adapt to new situations and environments?

Loving Inquiry is a practice of heartful being-in-relationship that is rooted in my commitment to sustaining open-hearted engagement with myself, others and the natural world. Loving Inquiry invites a continuous exploration and conversation on how we can love ourselves and each other within spaces of ambiguity, confusion, and/ or mis(s)understanding.

For example, when we notice that we are engaging in ways that feel unkind, or oppressive, reactive, or self-critical, we can look closer and notice what else emerges when we open to the complexity of the experience, whether through writing, voice, movement, character, photographs or whatever creative process fits the particular situation.

I invite you to read my blog and spend time with my photographs. Feel free to comment and respond to my work. Or send me your experiences of loving engagement across difference or misunderstanding.

change

ahava shira's Photos

Loading…

Ahava shira's Blog

ahava shira

gates 12-15 culmination

gate 12:

a whole valley
echoes

between
proud willows

when throat
singers flirt

with amphibian
feet



gate 13:

hocus crocus
white and purple
pocus, yellow’s
mellow, orange
you are sun

sun you are
orange, mellow
yellow’s, pocus
purple and white
crocus hocus

yellow’s pocus
purple, mellow
orange, and white
you are crocus
hocus sun



gate 14:
for Beverley

on this unsteady beach

each weathered
stone betrays embrace

tide refuses rhythm

horizon swallows step
after step

only driftwood dares… Continue

Posted on March 30, 2009 at 9:30am —

ahava shira

on my being with nature: gates 6-11

gate 6:

everybody wants
to be heard

creek
chinwags

renegade leaves
and stones
share savage
winter highlights

snow melts
and lower than normal
temperatures
threaten (promise)
departure

birds
natter
in the
orchard

discuss
spring plans

my song is only
one of many



gate 7:

on a sunset walk along Cranberry Road we meet the neighbours

jeepload of young men four-wheelin’ over rolling fields black and white cat licks its paws where the old Howard barn recently burned next door pastoral swampl… Continue

Posted on March 26, 2009 at 11:30am — 3 Comments

ahava shira

art-in-nature poems

Hello everyone,

I hope you are enjoying your experiences in nature. Here is my poem in progress...I have decided to name my days by gates as each day I look for a new way into words via this exploration.



14 gates: on my being with nature


gate 1 :

joy
can’t hide
here

and why would she
want to

though sometimes
she sleeps late
spits out words
without warning

starts pillow fights

we all fall
down

from somewhere

cells let go
gravity pulls



gate 2:

a morning of
bird music

through my b… Continue

Posted on March 19, 2009 at 10:22am — 1 Comment

ahava shira

love notes & self as world

Preparing for an encounter cannot be reduced to covering the other with clothes, images, or speeches which render this other familiar to us, but requires finding gestures or words which will touch the other in his, or her alterity. (Irigaray, 2002, 151)


I saw him there while I was sitting at a table by the window of Barb’s Buns, a local bakery and restaurant. I thought he looked disheveled and out of place. There’s an Indonesian word for it, feeling lost, meaning that you cannot see the mounta… Continue

Posted on November 16, 2008 at 12:44pm — 4 Comments

ahava shira

why "gals"

You know I just started to use the word gal when I introduced Mis(s) Understanding here a few days ago.

I know there's some derogatory history to the word. I want to reclaim it. In Hebrew the word "gal" means a wave. Each of these characters is a wave of inspiration, and reclamation, taking back strengths and qualities I had lost, or hadn't known were available to me.

I hear myself speak from I here. I hope that by sharing this work others might be inspired to reclaim parts of them.

Indeed la… Continue

Posted on November 8, 2008 at 11:00am —

Comment Wall (10 comments)

You need to be a member of The Art of Engagement to add comments!

Join this social network

At 8:34am on April 8, 2009, Jerry Longboat said…
Hello Ahava... I see the weaving of your being continues... wonderful to find you again, read you again!...
Jerry
At 7:54am on March 15, 2009, Liam Epling said…
Thank-you! I enjoyed your "page" very much as well! I suppopse passion is to blame. Passion is really nothing more than concentrated effort that nourishes the spirit. What it requires is the willingness to put other endeavours aside to pursue one that really interests you. The more involved one gets, the greater will be our nourishment. Our lives will change accordingly. Stay in touch! Bill.
At 10:20am on March 11, 2009, ahava shira said…
Hello Dominique,

Neat that you should respond today. Yesterday I edited this poem I wrote in the fall:

sing I must

sing I must
of trees

of larch
and poplar
true cedar and apple
fig and cherry
walnut and plum

sing I must
of grasses

of clover
and chickweed
nasturtium and
tiny tree frogs leaping
across towers of basil

sing I must
of flowering

of oriental lilies
roses dahlias
black-eyed susans
lobelia daisies
and snapdragons
irises and magnolia

who named all these
trees, grasses, flowers?

For I sing not just
of them themselves,
though they are many,
and lovely, in colour
shape and scent

but of their names
too, of the litheness
of language,
its pretty letters
and the paths they
have traveled
to their given
landings,

those they
inhabit and
grow from
and will eventually lose
becoming something
else entirely,

as everything that lives.


I sing of all things named
and unnamed, of the well
of names, how each thing
takes up another and another.
drawing them forth like bees
to nectar.

I sing of the ceaseless game
of naming, its pathos and
thanatos. Of temporary
roosts, and glorious hosts,

each one a different
kind of rhapsody.
At 3:23pm on March 10, 2009, Dominique Mazeaud said…
Dear Ahava, Thanks so much for your comments. I love what you said about heartist making you think of harpist and song, etc. One of the big things to do now is to sing our love to and for the Earth. My web site has been updated, I also have a blog as of today. Hope to post a response that I wrote for a local gallery that asked for the best essay on the topic of The Importance of ART in our challenging Political, Social and Econmic World. dominique
At 1:24pm on January 7, 2009, Art In Nature Challenge Project said…
Re: 'Art in Nature Challenge'

Ahava,

It was good to see your post and interest in the 2008 'Art in Nature Challenge'. You'd be a great addition to the Challenge. I will be having another one soon, but, not until we're past the shortest days here in the northeast.

I'll add that while it's great when we are all participating at the same time, I encourage and am also available to support a Challenge anyone may want to take on themself. You can start anytime, if you feel you'd like to. Just put a note on the Challenge page, for what dates your Challenge will be for and send me a letter, as well, so I'm sure to be aware of your 'Challenge'. You may find others joining in with you.

The format will be a bit different than in 2008, because I ask that people enter their posts for the Challenge on their own pages, but notate their posts on the Challenge page. In other words, in a comment box, on the Challenge page, write a brief note that you have made a longer post on your own page
about your Challenge activity. You'll see examples of this from the 2008 Challenge.

Let me know if you need more info on this.

D.
At 10:17am on November 21, 2008, ahava shira said…
Thanks Juan Carlos, It is wonderful to have the opportunity to share my work here and to open up the conversation to others. I look forward to reading more about the work you are doing. It sounds wonderfully important and after checking out the sites you mentioned, I feel inspired to write my next blog post. Off I go,
ahava
At 7:58pm on November 20, 2008, Juan Carlos Zaldivar said…
Thank you for starting this conversation. I have been doing some work with HIV and self-image and also researching trans-gender issues as they relate to these topics you are engaging us to consider.

I'd like to share SEXI, a project I have been working on, which deals with self image, its dangers and cost(s):

www.SexiTheMovie.com

Other websites of interest to your wonderful project might be:
www.MyRightSelf.org
TransgenderTapestry.com
Chroma Journal
At 2:25pm on October 22, 2008, Asha Croggon said…
Oh Ahava, thank you for sharing more of your thesis and approach to life. It was very timely as this very morning I was contemplating on the source behind some of my own reactive thoughts and found that many were linked to learned behaviour as to what is socially acceptable for someone of mixed heritage (I am half East Indian and half English) and other sources (e.g. peer-based, influence of geography).

I shall write more when I have time, but wanted to share that I could certainly see an art piece reflecting this learning process ... for me my medium is more tactile so I saw a sculpture, for you perhaps a performance piece. I am interested to see the unfolding of that for you too!
At 10:33am on October 16, 2008, Asha Croggon said…
Hi Ahava, I am really interested in learning more about your phd re: loving inquiry? I met a retired Catholic nun at a yoga retreat many years ago and her phd was on the capacity of intuition and her support piece was a beautiful woven wall-hanging ... since then it's always intrigued me what we chose to study and develop within ourselves.
At 8:25pm on August 11, 2008, Lisa Lipsett said…
Hi Ahava,
Its so great to have you here!
The book I mentioned that may have some valuable pieces for you is called Empathic Education: An ecological perspective on educational knowledge and is written by Laura & Cotton, Falmer press. They're both Australian I believe.
All the best
Lisa
 
 

About

Caffyn Kelley Caffyn Kelley created this social network on Ning.

Create your own social network!

 

© 2009   Created by Caffyn Kelley on Ning.   Create Your Own Social Network

Badges  |  Report an Issue  |  Privacy  |  Terms of Service

Sign in to chat!